Libras can be charming, diplomatic, graceful, and full of peace. However, they also have trouble in their relationships.
They are blessed with the keen ability to see both sides to an argument, which can make them especially good at smoothing things over or calming their significant others down, but it also tempts them to conceal their true feelings.
It doesn’t need to be explained why this can be a problem in a serious relationship.
If you’re a Libra and you don’t understand why your relationships keep falling apart, you need to look at these five mistakes you’re probably making.
1. You Say Yes, But Mean No
Due to the fact that Libras are so good at being able to account for all aspects of an argument, and because they hate arguing, they are more likely to tell you what you want to hear.
Although you may want to avoid conflict as much as possible, especially when it comes to someone you love, put your diplomacy skills to the test and tell them how you really feel.
2. You Try Too Hard to Be Loved
As a Libra, you strive to be loved by the people closest to you. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be loved, but there is something wrong if you try to buy that affection.
Love shouldn’t cost anyone anything; it should just happen. If it isn’t happening for you, no amount of money or gifts is going to change that fact so don’t even try.
3. Overthinking Things is an Issue
Libras like to be able to bring a sense of peace or a calming feeling to their relationships, which can lead to them overthinking their decisions.
You may have missed out on a great relationship or two because you took too long to think about it.
You need to learn how to take risks while not thinking too much about the outcomes. It will work out better for you in the long run.
4. You Can’t Be Single
Libras enjoy being in romantic relationships. When they aren’t in one, it can be tough to cope when they’re alone.
However, being single helps you realize what you really want out of a relationship, and what you need to live up to your full potential.
Try being alone for a while in order to figure out who you are, what you want, and how to go about getting it.
5. You Flirt Outside of Your Relationship
Libras love affection, and if they’re in a crowded room, chances are they’ve already made an entire room of best friends. This can also lead to new romantic entanglements as well.
For Libras, flirting almost comes naturally, and it can put a lot of strain on a relationship.
Control yourself when it comes to being around other people, and your relationships won’t suffer as much.